In honor and memory of my neighbor Don Jones, who loved to work in his own plot of land

In a most tricked out 1970’s color scheme – harvest golds, burnt oranges, avocado greens – a cross stitched saying hung in my maternal grandparents’ hallway leading to the bedrooms
My mother had cross stitched the saying, had framed it, and had presented it to my grandparents, who, at the time, were pretty great gardeners.
Who plants the seed beneath the sod and waits to see believes in God. Anon.
Faith in its truest form
Nathan, whose last name I know not, helped them weekly. He was a wizard in the garden
Really, I never knew Nathan’s last name. Still don’t. He worked for my grandparents, my great aunt and uncle, and some of their friends
Nathan knew how to turn a spade
Green thumbs on both hands
On both sides of my family, I come from a long line of amateur tillers of soil who love to get their hands dirty, who love to see the flowers blossom, who love to see the bulbs produce, who love to plant
I think my European antecedents were all peasants, vassals, serfs, no matter what the family histories may say
I love to work in the dirt
For me, it is a matter of faith to plant, till, sow, hoe, harvest
God put Adam and Eve in a Garden
Jesus is the Vine; we are branches
My Great Grandmother Gladys Jones, who lived in Bishopville, South Carolina, had a garden with roses, daffodils, flox, Queen Anne’s lace, azaleas, spirea, tea olives, a beautiful bed of pink oxalis in front of her porch. Old timey plants
She knew her stuff
On a visit to our house in Beaufort, she turned to my father, her grandson, whom she adored and said, “George, I see you have a wisteria. Hmmmm”
The wisteria came out
My great aunt and uncle Kemp and Rachel Kempson had a beautiful garden with foxgloves. Aunt Rachel kept egg shells in water to provide calcium to certain plants
My great aunt and uncle Bob and Laura Thomas trained smilax to grow in what were essentially hanging baskets on the side of their piazza in Ridgeway, South Carolina
My maternal grandfather grew amazing tomatoes every year
Bumper crops year after year
He had the touch
My maternal grandmother nourished a flowering quince whose original progenitor was from her grandparents’ home in Virginia
My father is still nourishing a portion of that quince today
She also tended well her myriad camellias
If anyone knows where I can find an Irene Coker variegated red and white bloomer, let me know
I like to think I have inherited the green thumb
Nothing makes me happier than working in our garden

It’s small
It’s urban
It’s become a Charleston style garden after some 15 years of work
T. Hunter McEaddy designed it for us
Landscape Architect that he is
I grew up watching my parents plant and tend, mow and rake, water and fertilize
Same with all of their neighbors
I swear Beaufort was filled with gardeners, and with helpers in those gardens
African American men who knew how to do
Jack Haynes
Sam Cole
And, again, men whom we addressed only by their first names: Arthur, Julius, Willie
Not appropriate, but it was the time in which I was reared
Jack Haynes helped my parents from time to time and other families around Beaufort
He was a bird
One Saturday as Jack Haynes was helping my father with some yard project, my father broached the subject of another family Mr. Haynes helped on weekends
“Jack,” he called, “you think Miz So-and-So is a little crazy?”
“Crazy?” he asked, “Crazy as shit!”
We have never forgotten that in my family
Crazy as shit
She was. But she was smart enough to hire Jack Haynes to help out in her yard
I like to think I paid attention to the Jack Haynes of the world
Additionally, I love reading books about plants and gardening
Latin names really help in learning about a plant and how to care for it
Those names are in gardening books, too
Books such as
The Gardens at Hatfield by the Dowager Marchioness of Salisbury
Penelope Hobhouse on Gardening by Penelope Hobhouse
Obvs
Gardens of Historic Charleston by James R. Cothran
The Charleston Gardener by Louisa Pringle Cameron
No amount of reading substitutes for doing, though
I can gauge the seasons by what I’m doing in the garden
Those of us who are diggers in the dirt are always looking at least two months ahead
Did I put the aluminum sulfate around the hydrangeas soon enough?
Did I add the Hollytone to the Meyer Lemon in time for there to be fruit?
Did I order the paper white bulbs?
Did I order the caladium bulbs?
Did I put the basil in enough sun?
Did I take out too much of the aspidistra?
Did I trim the all the suckers off the limbs of the crepe myrtles?
Did I dig out the lemon balm after it got too leggy?
I don’t want to over plant
A well-known gardener was once quoted as saying she had a fine garden, then she filled it with plants
Accordingly, I only make two annual pilgrimages to Hyam’s Garden Center on James Island
It is my Mecca

One trip to Hyam’s in mid-October
One trip to Hyam’s in mid-April
For the annuals
The pops of color
I will over plant a pot
Crowd it out
With flowers and greens and seasonal herbs
In October, it’s for pansies, violas, sweet alyssum, stock, foxgloves, delphiniums, snapdragons, parsley, rosemary, potting soil
In April, it’s for periwinkles, pintas, gomphrena, purple shield, million bells, basil, mint, oregano, cilantro, coleus, potting soil
The rotation changes
But not much
I plant 100 caladium bulbs in late April
All the same color of green and white
White Christmas
Every year
I hate change
I live in Charleston

I plant 40 or so daffodil bulbs in October
I am tending a Pink Perfection camellia that came from a cutting from my grandmother’s house in Camden, South Carolina
It’s taken about seven years to be almost two feet tall
I planted another camellia last year
That kind green bud
There are accidental problems in any garden
And in any life
Lambs ears burn up in our heat
Lavender plants, too
Even plants with full sun directions can use a little shade in our subtropical tending to tropical Zone 8
But, there are wonderful surprises in any garden
And in any life
For example, that Wandering Jew taken from a cutting from my in-laws has really taken over in that back corner
Its purple haired beauty spilled from the confines of its clay container and made a run for it, sprouting and colonizing all over
It will take over
We have had two trees taken out of our yard due to two named storms
More sunlight than ever
The grass actually grows
It’s a lot brighter
The yews we planted love it
Yew would, too

I may move my plumbago to give it more sun
The morning glory I run along our back fence every year adores the additional light
So, what’s your story, morning glory? I’m writing this one
Around Mother’s Day, our fence and arch are covered in Confederate jasmine that perfumes the whole yard
The most heady of smells
Around Hallowe’en, the two tea olives by the front porch perfume the whole yard
The most ephemeral of smells

I love to weed
I love to be covered in dirt
I love to sweat through the dirt
I love to cut back
I love to trim
I love to prune
I love to spread pine straw
It hides a myriad of sins
I love stand with the hose and water, air pods in place, music going
That cold beer at the end of a full day of yard work tastes so damned good
As the seasons change, it will be time to get to work in the yard
This year, I’m letting two planters become incubators for monkey grass with which I will eventually line a bed
I think I will cut back the hyndrangeas as they are getting kind of leggy

But what to put in those planters by the gate?
That’s the best part of being a digger of the dirt
Creativity
Following in the steps of the Old Master
Having a little faith